There´s a lot of certainty and uncertainty before my "life changing" trip in April-may. For those who don't know what that's all about I'll just tell the long story to unwrap my thinking.
I got dumped in December 2012, I loved my gf and even though I have been pretty clear of what this whole self-improvement journey involves and that she represented a new period in my life at the time it all started, I knew (or rather assumed) it would end.
It's natural and normal.
Ongoing vicious behaviors came to both of us around each other. Somehow at certain points id turn stagnant and comfortable and basically become a chode. She would lose attraction and then drama started which re-hooked her and " manned me up" temporarily. Only for it to happen again and again and again.
In June 2013 one of my best friends dies and for some reason I start getting more female attention than I can handle. Five girls or more constantly texting me, including my ex. Because I have so much attention - as it would naturally happen - I don't feel as attracted to my ex as I did,
What surprised me the most is that the power balance in this case was totally on my side this time and still the same vicious loop happened with her. Which basically told me that "enough is enough". Something has to change and something has to change forever.
This is where Toronto 2014 came up. I had nothing more to do here and I could just hit up a foreign country and work on my "game".
This is the tricky part.
What am I learning? Just game?
What's lifestyle changing game? How much can be achieved in 5 months?
Do I need a plan? Yes.
What am I trying to achieve?
What happens when I get back to my country? Can I ensure long term change? What do I have to do to do this?
So many questions that I'm pretty sure will pretty soon have an answer. And fun times are to come.
Talk to you later,
Gary
I tell my personal stories on lifestyle development and social improvement, I've gone from Socially awkward to socially cool, I tell you about the ins and outs of improving your confidence and social status.
Jan 12, 2014
Dec 21, 2013
Showering is Good
Yes, it is!
Lot's of things have happened in my life, good things bad things and neutral things.
Some people say that everything should always be taken as neutral or positive. However, losing one of my closest friends in a car accident isn't something that can be taken as something neutral or positive, right?
Anyways, I'm sure he's better now and doesn't want me to be depressing avid readers over the internet!
Getting back into dating my ex without making it official and then having it end catastrophically really got me thinking.
A lot has been achieved over the course of the last 10 years.
I started this "journey"when I was 16. That's when I first noticed how socially awkward I was and decided I wanted to be someone who offered a positive social experience to others. Someone who used his social superpowers in the defense of the other socially awkward kids and taught them to be cool like him.
An now here I am, 10 years later. Maturity has helped me accomplish a lot in a natural manner, however I think at least 85% of my progress has been hard work and persistence.
I've always tried to make this blog a humorist way to document my social advancements so that I can remember exactly where I was from times to times. I also found tucker max back in the day to be freaking hilarious so I kind of took that twist to the documentation of social advancements.
In no way any of the information presented is meant to offend anyone, and if it does well... I don't regret it because I tried not to do it! On the other hand this documentation is intended to be exciting for guys who want to improve socially. Maybe in a more informal manner than +Social Success Mastery which is another project I've been building for about 3 years now and I appreciate the support it has received since it's (for now) been more of a passive than an active in my bank account. Hopefully at some point it'll be able to support itself and I hope that point comes pretty soon!
Anyways, recent events, losing friendships, building new ones and the end of my university career and a shower I had about 15 minutes ago have got me thinking about the next stage in my life!
Especially this shower represented the birth of an idea.
I have plans for 2014. I've decided to take my social journey to the next level, I think it's not a secret for anyone how close my social development is to the "PUA" community. I realize not everyone is into that stuff and that's why I've made my website more adequate for a general audience. Sort of a 100% social approach to improving socially ( without including the dating part into everything and creating global working concepts for social dynamics ).
So, 2014 is "next level time".
This is why I've decided to do a total immersion into the social and pickup scene. I'm going to a new city for about 5-6 months and basically working on this stuff virtually 24/7. What "this stuff" means is: practicing my social skills on a 24/7 basis, immersing into the "PUA" community and refining the global concepts.
However, that has nothing to do with my shower as I had already decided doing that a couple months ago and hopefully in April this immersion period will have started.
What my shower got me to do is to come up with the idea of documenting virtually every single day of this immersion period.
Where?
Here.
Also, concept refinement to answer some of the questions I still have. Answer them like everything else has been answered on socialsuccessmastery.com through, trial, error, analysis and conceptualization.
No bull crap ever! Pure trial and error and this is basically my opportunity to give a lot "back to the world". Becoming a lab rat, experimenting all the social concept on myself and documenting them for everyone to see. The secrets will unveil in front of your own eyes [insert another crap advertising punchline] muahahaha.
Anyways I'm pretty excited about what I've called "Project Lifestyle". I'll keep you updated about it!
Lot's of things have happened in my life, good things bad things and neutral things.
Some people say that everything should always be taken as neutral or positive. However, losing one of my closest friends in a car accident isn't something that can be taken as something neutral or positive, right?
Anyways, I'm sure he's better now and doesn't want me to be depressing avid readers over the internet!
Getting back into dating my ex without making it official and then having it end catastrophically really got me thinking.
A lot has been achieved over the course of the last 10 years.
I started this "journey"when I was 16. That's when I first noticed how socially awkward I was and decided I wanted to be someone who offered a positive social experience to others. Someone who used his social superpowers in the defense of the other socially awkward kids and taught them to be cool like him.
An now here I am, 10 years later. Maturity has helped me accomplish a lot in a natural manner, however I think at least 85% of my progress has been hard work and persistence.
I've always tried to make this blog a humorist way to document my social advancements so that I can remember exactly where I was from times to times. I also found tucker max back in the day to be freaking hilarious so I kind of took that twist to the documentation of social advancements.
In no way any of the information presented is meant to offend anyone, and if it does well... I don't regret it because I tried not to do it! On the other hand this documentation is intended to be exciting for guys who want to improve socially. Maybe in a more informal manner than +Social Success Mastery which is another project I've been building for about 3 years now and I appreciate the support it has received since it's (for now) been more of a passive than an active in my bank account. Hopefully at some point it'll be able to support itself and I hope that point comes pretty soon!
Anyways, recent events, losing friendships, building new ones and the end of my university career and a shower I had about 15 minutes ago have got me thinking about the next stage in my life!
Especially this shower represented the birth of an idea.
I have plans for 2014. I've decided to take my social journey to the next level, I think it's not a secret for anyone how close my social development is to the "PUA" community. I realize not everyone is into that stuff and that's why I've made my website more adequate for a general audience. Sort of a 100% social approach to improving socially ( without including the dating part into everything and creating global working concepts for social dynamics ).
So, 2014 is "next level time".
This is why I've decided to do a total immersion into the social and pickup scene. I'm going to a new city for about 5-6 months and basically working on this stuff virtually 24/7. What "this stuff" means is: practicing my social skills on a 24/7 basis, immersing into the "PUA" community and refining the global concepts.
However, that has nothing to do with my shower as I had already decided doing that a couple months ago and hopefully in April this immersion period will have started.
What my shower got me to do is to come up with the idea of documenting virtually every single day of this immersion period.
Where?
Here.
Also, concept refinement to answer some of the questions I still have. Answer them like everything else has been answered on socialsuccessmastery.com through, trial, error, analysis and conceptualization.
No bull crap ever! Pure trial and error and this is basically my opportunity to give a lot "back to the world". Becoming a lab rat, experimenting all the social concept on myself and documenting them for everyone to see. The secrets will unveil in front of your own eyes [insert another crap advertising punchline] muahahaha.
Anyways I'm pretty excited about what I've called "Project Lifestyle". I'll keep you updated about it!
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